Sunday, February 13, 2011

The Flow for your Love Group

What is the format for the group for 2 hours?
INTRODUCTION 5-10 minutes

 Start the group within 10 minutes of your start time on the first night.

 Allow people to get there and get settled in, but after the first week begin the group within 5 minutes of the start time.

 Always start with prayer.

 Share the vision of the group and the series.

 Remind people that this group lasts 7 weeks and each week we will review the weekend message.

 Review the group covenant (on page 5 of this packet)

 Remind your group of the 2 acts of love every group will be doing on March 19 and April 12,13 or 14.


LOOK BACK 10-15 minutes

The purpose of this time is to ‘look back’ over your week and share some stories with one another. This is an icebreaker for your group. You will be given a question to ‘break the ice’ and connect with your group. Sometimes the question will be more general like, ‘What’s one high you had this week?’ Other times the icebreaker may be more fun like, ‘What’s your favorite love song?’ And other times it may be more reflective like, ‘At what age do you remember first telling someone that you loved them?’

LOOK UP 15-30 minutes

The purpose of this time is to focus on God’s perspective on the topic and/or verse. Questions like, ‘Does our world value patience?’ or ‘What makes it difficult for people to forgive and not hold a record of wrongs?’ This time will connect people with the weekend message and allow them to discuss Gods perspective on the topic. You will be given a question that is about the weekend message. Begin by taking out the outline and reviewing the key points made by the pastor. Spend a few minutes reminding people of the key verses and take away or next steps that were encouraged from the weekend message.

LOOK IN 30-45 minutes

The purpose of this time is for people to begin to apply the content into their life. It’s where truth and life intersect that real transformation takes place. The questions will include things like, ‘How do I exemplify patience as a spouse, parent, neighbor, and friend?’ or ‘How does pride tend to creep into my life?’

LOOK OUT 15 minutes

The purpose of this time is to help people in the group determine what their next step will be based on what they learned from the message and what they discussed in the group. Without clear next steps, people simply gather information and experience very little transformation. Also, at the end of every group, have people answer these 3 statements:

o This week I will pray for…

o This week I will choose to love my…

o This week my act of love will be to…


How will I get the Love Group questions?

I will post the group questions on my blog and on the website by the Wednesday prior to each weekend.

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